Dating with RU Girl

On your first search be aware of a profile that just sounds too good to be true – it probably is! Don’t just jump to get in contact with the first profile that catches your eye. Look around and get a good idea of the types of people on the site.

Protect Yourself
Remember that you don’t need to give your full name, number or address straight away and definitely don’t put it in your profile sothat everyone else can see it. There is no need to reveal any of this information until you feel completely comfortable to do so.

Common Sense
Like anything you do on the internet whether it is shopping or dating – use your common sense. Don’t do anything that you wouldn’t feel comfortable doing normally. Trust has to be earned so take your time in trusting strangers and make sure you get a good idea about the integrity and sincerity of the other person.

Use Your Eyes
If the person you are talking to has not posted a photo then make sure you ask for a photo. After all its not a ‘blind date’ you are after! You need to see what they look like to see if you are attracted to them as well as their profile. More importantly if you intend on meeting the person then you should have a clear idea of what they look like. The more photos the better as its always a good idea to get a sense of the person in various different situations.

Speak On The Phone
Whilst the wonders of modern technology mean all this communication can be made via the internet and email it is always good to talk on the phone to get a better idea about the person. You will be able to see what their social skills are like and see another side to them. Again – safety first you don’t need to give away your number if you don’t want to. You can use your mobile rather than your home phone.

Meet In Person
You are under no obligation to meet the person no matter how many emails or phone conversations that have taken place so far. You only meet your prospective online date when you feel completely comfortable. If someone is really insistent on meeting you straight away then they might not be right for you.

Arrange A Secure Meeting Place
Make sure you pick a place that you know and feel safe in. This may mean a bar you know well and/or arranging to meet at a time you would prefer. A public place where there are other people around is always the best option.

Body Language And Manner
When you do eventually meet an online date then as well as enjoying the experience, keep an eye out for body language or manner that infers somebody who is pressurising or controlling. It’s unlikely to happen but be aware.